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The Higher Alignment Process is initiated in introductory nights, weekend workshops, and seven weekend integration processes. The actual results manifest in our lives by enhancing our awareness in connection to others outside of the traditional learning process. When we accept ourselves, particularly our intuitive knowing, we can truly support ourselves and others to be more authentic. We discover that awareness is generated by honoring our aliveness and wisdom simultaneously.

The Higher Alignment Process operates best when we maintain equilibrium between new motives, distinctions and skills. We clarify our choices and illustrate the options in front of us by demonstrating the cause- effect relationships of the motives we hold. Making connections between our motivations and the results supports us in shifting to new directions and encourages us to embrace enthusiastically the higher possibilities. This allows us to present distinctions that provide a diagnostic road map to tell us when we are on track.

Engaging this opportunity requires us to develop skills and anchor our abilities. Being able solve relationship problems, build confidence and experience our mastery requires practice. The more we test this material with our friends, the more obvious our new skills will be. The final key to enacting this work is being able to integrate and assimilate this information and new practices to live the possibility of enlightened relationships.

The Higher Alignment process requires only a willingness to test new possibilities with a commitment to examine the results. We do not attempt to convince or persuade participants of our results, only to reflect and honor our highest and most clear personal truths. This means that we propose ideas, suggest different ways to engage our partners, and report our personal experiences in dealing with various problems.

Each individual must consider and validate each element of the process based on the degree it works for them. The key is to remember that you are the best expert in your life. Higher Alignment honors and respects your free will above all else. For that reason we do not advertise or "sell" this process using instinctive or intellectual hooks. We provide the information and research at the lowest possible cost, extend this work primarily through personal referrals, and use a grass roots community building process to implement it.

Initially the results are modest as we integrate the framework of Spiritual Partnerships through 28 evening discussions. The first seven nights provide an introduction to evaluate if this information is for you. The last three nights of the introductory series are required to continue onto any of the other three intermediate seven night series. These night cover pretenses, defenses and summarize compatibility factors in order to prepare participants for understandings the material in the intermediate series.

The Foundation Series Courses are Creative Uniqueness, Dancing with Romance and Enlightened Distinctions. You may take these course in any order. Each one covers key area in relationships. Creative Uniqueness supports us identifying our authentic creative nature by training participant in the seven most important compatibility factors. Dancing with Romance empowers us to break our entrancements and illusions and uplift our romantic frameworks. Enlightened Distinctions teaches skills of autonomy through harmless communication, intimacy through appropriate commitments and creativity through appreciation, agreement and alignment.

Our introductory course Enlightened Relationships and these three foundation courses enable us to practice Higher Alignment process in week-end workshops. Without this foundation, participants will have a difficult time seeing the whole process, The Weekend workshops deals with the four problems in relationships. Roadmaps to Relationships workshop which deals going beyond defensive differences. The ABC's of Enlightened Relationships workshop covers the ten major problems as well as the top ten things we can do to enhance our relationships. Explorations of Love and Romance workshop supports us realizing how we victimize ourselves by looking for love outside of us. Finally, Building Skills in A Common Neutral Ground workshop provides the technology to facilitate interactions under all circumstances.

All of these courses demonstrate the intuitive skills of enlightened relationships, frequently elevating instinctive issues into intellectual understanding and intellectual frameworks into intuitive wisdom. Case studies and volunteers from the audience bring a sense of reality to the process. Soon individuals notice that it is not only the information that is important, but the energy behind it that empowers our ability to transform our lives.

As we grow, we begin to see obvious new choices that prepare us for Spiritual Partnerships. For example, shifting to enthusiasm over intensity and excitement permits more sharing and true intimacy. Accepting these opportunities leads to new realizations about the nature of our reality and how we engage it. Our assumptions about who we are, how we love and contribute, and how we can heal and support others are realigned. It is not long before spontaneous shifts in our ways of relating begin to occur. This precipitates a crisis where we must find, honor and acknowledge our truth with others in order to move forward. Eventually an inner alignment is found and our perception of the universe is transformed.

Piecing together these inner alignments leads us to a higher alignment as we learn the power of choosing creatively aligned partners. Higher alignment also begins when we take ownership of mastering the differences or similarities that distract us from our experience of being together. Completion of this higher alignment training occurs when we know how to mutually grow and learn together in all circumstances.

Demonstration of this skill represents the completion of your individuation process, where you cease to compromise yourself. Instead of compromise, we learn to respond to others based on who we naturally are, accepting our intuition about who they actually are, rather than accepting who they believe they are. Eliminating these false projections and expectations heals our co-dependent assumptions that increase our pretenses and defenses. Our autonomy skill allows us to create our relationships by consciously aligning our motives, thoughts and actions with partners. The Higher Alignment process supports us accomplishing this in a harmless way, sometimes using paradox to create the space needed for both parties to participate.

Higher Alignment occurs when we balance our inner masculine and feminine to ignite our the natural creativity of our inner fire. This occurs when our masculine and feminine sides met and embrace each other. Instead of operating primarily from one or the other by honoring the masculine drive for order or the feminine capability for creating possibilities out of chaos, we need to learn to integrate and use both appropriately, depending on the circumstances. Our inner feminine can be characterized by respecting our potential and the potential of the others. Individuals with strong inner feminine sides typically have great intimacy and relationship skills and are known for their wisdom. Our inner masculine can be characterized by the power to esteem and validate only what we or others have accomplished. Individuals with strong inner masculine sides typically have great autonomy and task management skills and are known for their aliveness. The more we heal our polarization the less defensive or reactive we will be. We call these pioneering integrators conscious co-creators.

As a conscious co-creator, we approach others knowing our own energy and seeking a synergistic resonance that indicates a higher creative opportunity. When both individuals respond to each other on intuitive levels it begins the process of manifesting possibilities without the resistance we find in our entangled relationships. Without resistance, our energy can be focused out into the world rather than locked in maintaining the relationship. This ability to mutually create from the top down allows us to customize our relationship to fit the circumstances, rather than being stuck in an ideal, fixed image about how it should be. The Higher Alignment Process encourages us to make playfully conscious all fears, desires and intentions so we can be fully met and supported by our partners.