IV.  Defensive Healing Series

When we accept that our defenses have severely limited reliable perceptions, that they interfere with our own creative ability, and that our consciousness and ability to be present are compromised by their operation, then we are usually ready to transform our lives through defensive healing. The Defensive Healing Series completes the cycle of the "Enlightened Relationship" process by showing you how to transform this pain about relationships into joyful creative expressions.

The processes for all three courses involve letting go of attachments and comfortable fallback positions. Each of the three defensive styles has its own custom healing process, but the result is the same: we learn to balance and express our inner masculine and feminine under all circumstances without becoming polarized by the demands and desires of others. 

Learning to create our own safety in adverse situations frees you from the fears of your past. We encourage you to focus your awareness in the moment and follow your own heart’s desire rather than operate from the unsatisfying beliefs of those around you. For those who wish to learn how to creatively flow with Distant Defense style individuals, this course provides opportunities to practice not becoming reactive when they get upset and fearful. We accomplish this by improving your self-acceptance and understanding of the entire decision-making structure that Distant individuals use to protect themselves.

This seven night series consists of three nights where we focus on healing our connection both to spirit and our body. Our intention is shift our intellectual and emotional anchors that hold us prisoner in our defense and increase our responses when things don’t go as we expect. The remaining four nights are dedicated to putting us in touch with how we were creatively discounted and denied by our parents. This process enables us to recover our own choice regarding our defenses and focuses on discovering the gift of having our parents and our defense style. To the degree possible, we will encourage each individual to accept their parents just as they are and forgive them which will enable and enrich our ability to be more present.

Event Night Titles

• An Overview of Distant Defense Style Healing

• Letting Go of Intellectual and Emotional Self Rejection

• Recovering Our Decision Making Choice

• Owning Our Intellectual and Emotional Truth

• Learning to Tell Our Truth Without Compromise

• Accepting Our Creative Being and True Energetic Pace

• Using Inner Discipline To Increase Personal Freedom